Dating in today society
You might even learn something too by stepping outside your cultural norms. We can’t help it if we have a preference for one type of look, such as one guy being attracted to skinny women with blond hair whereas another prefers curvy women with darker tones.
How can you tell when it is a fetish and not just attraction?
This clouded vision can make us more inclined to make choices based on innate chemical responses rather than true potential. A sense of spaciousness where the journey is in this moment is just as much appreciated as a potential destination, which makes for a much more fun, relaxed, and enjoyable dating experience. Honoring what feel is right for you in any given moment is ultimately the only sure fire way to ensure you have an positive dating experience.
While there is nothing wrong with this per se, it does complicate things when we introduce the hormone surge from physical intimacy that can sometimes cloud our vision. While marriage and children is just as much a modern concept as a traditional one, it’s important not to approach every single date as though you are interviewing a potential life partner. Ultimately the term “rules” implies that there is only one right way to date; something which I do not subscribe to.
You will hear lyrics about “white bitches” and how successful black men will “leave your ass for a white girl.” Kanye West then went and married a white girl…Yes, women are seen as trophies and markers of success.
This is a huge problem and you need to be aware of it before you enter into an interracial dating relationship with a white woman, especially if you are black.
They just got tired of the stares and comments so decided to go on dates elsewhere.
Or, if you are the woman in the interracial relationship, the women in your boyfriend’s life will probably shun you.