Dating a girl with adhd
Annoyed easily, wanting things to happen immediately, and constantly playing with their phones, twirling their hair, or bouncing their leg up and down; a person with ADD needs constant motion. People with ADD have to be careful to not become hoarders.It’s hard for a person with ADD to keep things in order because their brain doesn’t function in an orderly manner.They are afraid they will say something foolish or react inappropriately. For people with ADD, the surface is an invisible exterior that they penetrate. Inventors, artists, musicians, and writers thrive in this zone. Like The Princess and the Pea, they can feel a pea under twenty mattresses. Once a task is complete, papers related to it are placed in a pile, where they stay until the piles grow too high.Another wonderful aspect of ADD is that because they think differently, their abstract minds see solutions to problems that the concrete thinker cannot see. Fibers in fabric that most people wouldn’t feel can be itchy. That’s when the person with ADD becomes overwhelmed, frustrated, and cleans up.If there is something worrisome going on, or if they are upset, a person with ADD cannot think of anything else.
Instead of keeping the focus on what’s in front of them, people with ADD are staring at the colors in the painting on the wall.Even when their oxygen is running low, if they are enjoying the view, they won’t come up for air until they’re almost out of oxygen.For a person with ADD, their emotions are flying wild, out of proportion and cannot be contained.Like walking through a labyrinth, they start moving in one direction, but keep changing directions to find the way out.As deep thinkers, they are sensitive to whatever is going on around them.